Surviving as a Korean International Student in Russia: Cultural Differences to Watch Out For

Studying abroad in Russia can be an exciting adventure, especially at HSE University–St Petersburg. As an international student, you might already expect challenges like language barriers and the freezing winter. However, cultural differences often require the biggest adjustments. Navigating through everyday Russian customs and social norms can be overwhelming at first. The good news is that understanding these differences will not only help you adapt more smoothly but also make your experience more rewarding. In this article, we’ll explore specific cultural contrasts between Korea and Russia—from communication style to classroom etiquette—and share friendly tips on how to cope.

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Directness in Communication

One of the first cultural differences you notice is how directly Russians communicate. Russians tend to be very matter-of-fact and blunt, whereas Koreans often communicate more indirectly to preserve harmony. For example, a Russian professor might give straightforward feedback on your assignment without the gentle phrasing you might expect back home. Don’t be alarmed: it’s just normal in Russia to speak to the point and offer honest criticism without much hesitation. In contrast, Korean communication often softens negative feedback or implies it subtly to avoid hurt feelings.

Tip: Don’t take things personally. Remind yourself that blunt comments or brief replies are a cultural style, not a personal attack. In fact, Russians appreciate directness and clear expression of opinions. Ask questions, speak up with your ideas, and practice being a bit more direct when you communicate. Your Russian classmates and professors will respect your participation, and you’ll grow more confident over time.

Greetings and Personal Boundaries

Greetings in Russia might initially catch you off guard. In Korea, people greet with bows or polite handshakes, keeping a modest physical distance. In Russia, especially among friends or in informal settings, greetings can be more physically warm. You may see friends hug or even do quick cheek kisses when saying hello. Strangers or new acquaintances, however, usually stick to a firm handshake with direct eye contact. Don’t be surprised if a Russian classmate you’ve gotten to know goes in for a hug while you instinctively start a bow—these moments can actually become lighthearted stories later!

Tip: That said, personal space and boundaries are important. Russians generally stand closer during conversation and might touch your arm or shoulder to show friendliness. This can feel invasive if you’re not used to it. Remember, it’s okay to set your own comfort level. If someone’s greeting or physical closeness is too much for you, you can politely take a small step back or offer a handshake instead of a hug. Russians are usually understanding if you maintain a friendly demeanour. A simple smile and a nod can accompany your greeting to show warmth on your terms. Over time, you might even start appreciating the occasional warm hug on a cold day!

Professor–Student Relations

In both Korea and Russia, classrooms tend to be more formal than, say, in the USA or Europe—but there are subtle differences to prepare for. Russian professors are professional and fairly formal, much like Korean professors, yet they can be even more concise and hands-off in their expectations. This means that while a Korean professor might provide structured guidance and check in on students’ progress, a Russian professor often expects you to manage your own learning independently once they give out the assignment or syllabus. They will deliver lectures and instructions, but then it’s on you to follow through. Don’t expect frequent reminders about deadlines or lots of one-on-one mentorship unless you initiate it.

While Russian professors may seem a bit distant, they do appreciate sincere, hardworking students. Show that you are taking your studies seriously. Being prepared, punctual, and attentive in class goes a long way in earning respect. If you have a question or need help, don’t be too shy to approach them.

Finally, remember that professors in Russia, as in Korea, hold a position of authority—but they won’t chase you down to offer help. You are expected to take initiative. This independence might feel challenging at first, but it’s an opportunity to grow. Be confident in initiating brief, purposeful conversations with your instructors when you need guidance. Most will be happy to point you in the right direction or clarify a doubt when asked. In fact, they’ll see it as a sign you’re a proactive student. Over time, as you demonstrate your dedication, you might find some professors becoming more friendly and willing to engage. It just starts with you taking that first step in a professional, prepared manner.

Understanding ‘некультурный’ Behaviour

You might hear Russians use the phrase ‘не культурно’–literally ‘not cultured’—to describe behaviour that is rude or inappropriate by their standards. Every society has its own idea of what is polite. In Russia, there are certain habits that people consider very uncouth, and being unaware of them can lead to awkward moments. Two common examples are being loud in public and being late to appointments.

Koreans are used to keeping their voices down in public transport or libraries, but in group settings some noise is okay. In Russia, you’ll notice that people generally maintain a moderate volume in public spaces. Shouting or speaking super loudly in a quiet train car, for instance, will draw disapproving looks. It’s considered ‘некультурно’ to disturb others with noise. This also includes things like playing music on your phone without headphones or having an overly loud conversation on your phone in a café. Try to be mindful of your volume, especially in places like the metro, study rooms, or museums.

Showing up late habitually is seen as disrespectful. If a class starts at 9:00, many Russian students will be in their seats by 8:55. In Korea, punctuality is also valued, but you might have experienced that meetings or social gatherings can have a bit of flexibility (‘Korean time’ for casual meet-ups). In Russia, it’s safer to assume time is strict, especially for anything official—classes, meetings with university staff, or even meeting a friend at a set time. Being 15 minutes late without notice could offend someone. Of course, life happens—if you expect to be late, send a text or call if possible to let the person know. They’ll appreciate the heads-up, which is common courtesy everywhere.

Tip: The best way to avoid ‘некультурный’ mistakes is to be observant and ask questions. If you’re unsure about a situation, watch what locals do. If all your classmates remove their hats when they enter a building (common in Russia), do the same. If you’re invited to a Russian friend’s home, remember to take off your shoes at the entrance–actually, this is one of the things Russia and Korea have in common! When in doubt, don’t be afraid to ask your buddy or a Russian friend: ‘Is it okay if I do this?’ Most will happily explain the local customs, and they’ll be curious about Korean customs too. By picking up on these cultural cues and using polite phrases, you’ll avoid most faux pas and feel more confident in social settings.

Essential University Resources

You’re not expected to figure out all these cultural differences alone. HSE University–St Petersburg offers resources and communities to support international students—make good use of them!

One of the best support systems available is the Buddy Programme. This is basically a group of friendly volunteer students who sign up to help newcomers from abroad. Your ‘buddy’ is like an assigned friend who can guide you through the basics of living in St Petersburg and understanding Russian culture. They often meet you at the airport when you arrive, help you get to your dormitory, show you around campus, and are there to answer tons of questions. The buddy volunteers’ mission is to create a welcoming and inclusive environment for international students, and help you adjust to the local culture and the academic environment. Many international students have found their buddies super helpful not just for practical stuff (like getting a transport card or buying a SIM card) but also for making a Russian friend early on. Don’t hesitate to ask your buddy about anything—whether it’s ‘How do I say this phrase in Russian?’ or ‘Where’s a good place to try borscht?’ or even ‘Why do Russians do ___? (insert confusing habit).’ They are there to help you feel at home, and it’s a great way to bridge cultural gaps. Often, these buddy relationships turn into genuine friendships that last beyond the orientation period. Keep an eye out for the Buddy events—the ISU Buddies often organise city tours, game nights, or cultural exchange events for newcomers. These are perfect opportunities to learn in a fun, low-pressure environment.

Aside from the Buddy Programme, HSE University–St Petersburg has the International Student and Alumni Centre, the primary task of which is to assist international students. They can help with administrative issues (visa, registration, etc), provide guidance if you’re struggling with adaptation, and sometimes organise intercultural events. If you ever feel lost or face a problem (from confusion about class schedules to feeling homesick), this office is a safe place to seek help.

In short, don’t isolate yourself. Reach out and take advantage of the support system in place. University staff and student volunteers truly want you to succeed and feel happy during your stay. Whether it’s academic advice, personal support, or just companionship, the resources are there. By connecting with your buddy, using the International Office, and joining student communities, you’ll find that the scary cultural differences become much easier to handle—you might even start helping newcomers!

Heera Kim

Exchange Student from Kyung Hee University (1st–2nd Modules, 2025)

When I gave a presentation for HSE students preparing to go to Korea, I shared what it’s like to live in Russia as a Korean student, and the cultural differences they might feel in Korea. What surprised me was how similar our problems were—one student said that even simple things in Korea felt like daily challenges, and I could completely relate. It reminded me that adjusting to a new country is a shared experience. I also realised that although Korea is often seen as super convenient, it’s not always easy for foreigners to adapt, and it was meaningful to reflect on that together.

Amir Radmish

1st-year student of the Master’s programme ‘Comparative Politics of Eurasia’

The multicultural atmosphere at HSE University has changed how I see the world. Celebrating Nowruz with other students from Central Asia and India was unforgettable—it wasn’t just a festive night with food and music but a chance to share and learn about each other’s cultures. I also had the opportunity to introduce my own Afghan heritage. These cultural exchanges made me feel connected and proud, and they’ve helped build friendships that cross borders.

Adapting to life in Russia as an international student will undoubtedly be a growth experience. There will be moments of confusion, humour, and triumph as you learn to navigate direct Russian conversations, exchange hugs or firm handshakes, and decipher your professor’s expectations. Through it all, keep in mind that being open-minded and proactive is the key. Every cultural misstep can be a learning opportunity, and every effort you make to bridge the gap will pay off in richer experiences. Remember to use the tools and communities around you: your fellow students, the buddy programme, and university support services are your safety nets and guides. Thousands of international students have gone through this journey and come out stronger, and so will you.

In the end, overcoming cultural differences is not about losing your cultural identity—it’s about expanding it. You’ll find ways to blend the best of both cultures into your daily life. You are adding a new layer to your personality and skill set. How cool is that?! So face those challenges with courage and a sense of humour. Soon enough, you’ll catch yourself giving another new student advice on surviving in Russia.

 

Text by Junseo Lee, 1st-year student of the Master’s programme ‘Comparative Politics of Eurasia